This is a model I follow to successfully approach, attract and seduce women. It is modeled after some of the most successful models of PUA in the world.
Most of the phases you will recognize but I have included two new phases as I think they are crucial. The two new phases are 1. Pre open value calibration phase and 2. The hook phase.
#1. Pre-attract Her
Clothes, social proof, body language, etc.
You must calibrate your social value to the set before you even open your mouth. A lot of guys shoot themselves in the foot before they even open their mouths and get blown out, simply on nonverbals. If you are going to open a 10, you must raise your “PRE-OPENER ” Value before the set will even let you game them.
#2. Open Her and Negging
Must be non sequitur and must not convey any interest. I always use “Guys first impression these rings”. I wear these big chunky rings… Blows open sets in clubs like crazy.
Or you can use “hey guys first impression these necklaces.” I have some weird, gothic style necklaces that I wear. Or “How tall are you?”
In a mall, I use an opinion opener and have stacked routines or stories that segue from that. Each stacked routine has very little or no relationship with the previous thread. This idea of multiple threading, or stacking routines is an art form and we must get good at this.
NOW REMEMBER with a 10 you must neg her to disqualify yourself from appearing like a potential “hitter” or “suitor” to her and her peer group if they are there. I will say things like:
“Too bad you’re not my type because you are really pretty.” Or “Hey guys my name is McMaax. I just had to come by and ask you guys something. Let me see I need the most interesting one here. Not sure about you… (Pointing to the target) but how about you to one of the cockblocks?” Do you believe in magic, or whatever.
I will also sometimes give an HB ten “the finger” and she will usually say, WTF?, but in an attracted way. If they say, “You’re a jerk,” you have to be prepared for that contingency. I reply, “Look knucklehead, in my country that is a sign of affection!!!! I am being social, come on get up to speed. !!!”
I will also say, “Look I’ve been wanting to talk to you but you are surrounded by all of your friends, I don’t know why yet I mean you are pretty but who cares beauty is common, so who are you or what do you have going on for you besides your looks?” If she says, well I’m smart. I will say “And that is special because…….”
Once at this high bitch shield club, we had 7 girls hanging off of our arms. How? I gave the 10 a finger and this baited her to open me. See this type of stuff immediately conveys that you must be getting laidbecause who disqualifies themselves like this. NO one!!! Only a realalpha male who is already getting girls, socially proofed through the roof. That’s how you quickly attract for faster sex.
OK so now once you have opened, you need to,
How to attract for her to jump into bed more quickly? By demo’ing higher value to the whole group which stands for demonstration of higher value.
The best way I have found is by telling stories. I have a few stories at the bottom that I will tell the whole group. Storytelling is an art and must convey that you possess characteristics of an alpha male, like
1. You are pre selected
2. You are the leader of men and
3. I have standards for myself and for women I date
You may also show higher value using cool things like a massage technique, palm reading, cold reading, dance moves, show her cool massage tips, etc. But I reserve these more for when I am alone with her in the comfort or rapport phase or if she is in a two set with another chick or guy.
When you are showing higher value to the group, you must “falsely disqualify” to the target, to disarm her friends by letting them know that you can’t possibly be there acting as a potential suitor for her, and to get her seeking your validation. Now if someone goes “yeah right or whatever…” because your story is canned and they don’t believe you, you say “Please get a life”, and then continue. This will get the girl tochase you.
If I’m telling a story about how my ex gave me coupons for various sexual favors for Valentines Day which she made, (True story by the way) and one of the girls goes “ewww that is gross!” I will say, “Whatever….too bad you’re not my type” and continue with the story.
Always maintain the set. Own the set. When you own the guys the girls will follow one by one too. Also when you demonstrate the mentality of “I am here conveying my personality and if you don’t like it, go fuck yourself” that is very attractive. So always maintain your frame. The purpose of the attract phase is to get set to reach the Hook Phase.
#4. Hook Her
This is the point whereby you have peaked the groups or set’s interest so much they do not want you to go. I usually do this with 4-5 killer stories I have (some real and some made up) and also by stories to the group about my knowledge of certain things, facts, geography, or places I’ve been.
Also with lone wolves or 2 sets I will hook them by saying “Holy shit your hand…” and then go into the palm reading or hand structure routine. They always respond with curiosity and say “What, what, tell me!”
See how they are all NON SEXUAL, I ain’t hitting on the girl. I’m just being an interesting guy to the group. If there are males or other females in there, I have just by having them listen to me, conveyed higher value than the males because I am controlling their frame, disengaged any fears that I am there to hit on her from the male/females by lowering the self esteem of the target.
Remember the real purpose of the neg is to disqualify yourself “falsely” from appearing like a potential suitor.
NOTE: Attract phase is only 2-5 minutes. Most guys make the mistake of staying in this phase way too long. They appear like dancing monkeys. Always remember to phase shift guys. So after 2-5 minutes, you will see interest being generated, then you can test to see if you are in the screening phase by “baiting the girl” so go into the next phase.
You can also see if she is attracted by doing certain touch escalation tests and see if she passes (trust test, tension test, sticking out your hand and see if she grabs it).
You can also use verbal baits and see if she will bite. Baits are verbal questions that bait her to provide illusionary input to your screens. Usually if a woman is attracted to you, she will want to jump through your hoops or pass your screens.
Some of the lines I use are, “You are very pretty, but so what, looks is common, it’s like winning the lottery in the gene pool. I’m curious about you. What do you have going on for you besides your looks?”
If she answers, then I know I am in this Hook phase. If not, and she gives me a cocky response like “Why do you want to know?” or “I am not answering that,” then you need to then neg her because you are still in “Attract her” phase. You can say “Truthfully I was just being polite… I really wasn’t interested” then stack another story to her peer group. This will get her chasing you and will create attraction.
Then when you go into screen/accepting her, she will jump through your hoops. I am calibrating what phase I am in and using various gambits, value zingers and stories to make sure that I move her along the 7 point escalation model. So once she is biting the bait you are in the next phase which is,
#5. Screen and Accept
Or “she needs to attract you” phase. So you have showed higher value to her and she gave you signs of interest, now she needs to attract YOU. If you want quick sex, the girl has to chase YOU.
So you bait her and allow her to DHV to you. You accept with touch or space invading and then release and say “Wait shit. I can’t even talk to you now” and do a back turn or look away. She will reinitiate if she is attracted and will start to game you. In fact you need to be switching the screen/chase switch in the attract phase to get her contributing to the pick up to prevent her circuits from being overkilled by being in a reactive zone.
You then also do this cycle a few times in the screen phase to make her feel that she is working to win you over and to make her feel that your signs of interest to her have been earned and are legit, not fake. After the 3rd cycle, you finally accept and go into the rapport/comfort and trust stage, where you can state your interest. This phase is signatured with touch escalation, location changing and comfort/rapport building routines.
#6. Create Rapport and Comfort
This involves getting more comfortable with each others touch, closeness, so touch escalation is the key here and comfort building routines. You can then 1. Bounce or isolate to another venue or 2. Time bridge to a second day when you can hang out.
A few killer routines are shift to makeout, grounding your identity to her reality, role playing, pair bonding, saying to her “I think you’ve hijacked my brain babe” etc… Once the comfort building and touch escalation is in progress it will get more intimate, more sexual…until it leads to a…
#7. The Quick Sex Close
You will have to deal with last minute resistance often but the more venue changes you make, and the more time you spend with the girl, she will believe that she “got to you emotionally” and you will stick around, not just go in for the kill and leave.
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This seduction article is bound to ruffle some feathers; if you are easily offended by the nature of human psychology and emotional manipulation then you might want to skip this article entirely.
Long-time practitioners of Sonic Seduction know that everything in dating and seduction can be reduced to this simple fact…
Most relationships end up boiling down to power.
“Pattern interruption” is a cornerstone seduction tactic which can be used to dominate women
In fact, very few relationships ever get based on equality and women are usually the ones who end up with more power in the end. In other words, they always get whatever they want whenever they want it. So, if you want to learn how to dominate women and get the upper hand in a relationship for a change, then read on.
Now, it would be important to note that you will not be learning how to dominate women in the sense of physical abuse here. It is merely about who gets to sit in the driver’s seat in your relationship. And this is the gist of the Sonic Seduction fractionationphilosophy that we propagate here at SeductionFAQ.
One of the very first things that pop into the male mind whenever they think about learning ways to dominate women would besex. After all, this is the area in one’s love life where women have ruled men through domination all the way back in history. So, if you would like to dominate a woman, the best place for you to start would be in your sex life.
The Laws Of Intimacy – Girl Preening Body Language
Now, if you would like to dominate your woman in bed, the first thing you have to do is clean the slate altogether. All that this really means is that you have to take her power away completely.
In order to do this, you will have to stop begging her for sex until she starts to ask you for it for a change. This might be hard in the beginning, but once you take away her power, you will be able to take that power for yourself. This shift in dynamic is key if you want to master the art of the pickup.
In fact, if you can withhold having sex for longer than she can, then you will be able to dominate her whenever you do have sex again. Naturally, you can’t just go back to your old ways once you dominate her once, though. Wait for her to constantly beg you for sex and you will have the upper hand in the bedroom all the time. This is also the underlying principle of covert seduction by men who are well versed in the art of attraction.
The Virtue of Selfishness (or, the Ayn Rand Factor)
Another thing you need to learn when it comes to how to dominate women is to always think about yourself before you think of them. A lot of men fall into the spell of a woman and lavish them with money, gifts and promises to woo them and get what they want. What you actually have to do in order to take that power back is to start buying yourself nice things with her knowledge. Of course, you should still offer to pay for lunch and other little things, but stop buying her expensive gifts from now on – not unless she has earned them in one way or another.
Now, there are a lot of other methods that you can look into while learning how to dominate women, but the aforementioned ones are the most effective ones that can help you get exactly what you want out of your next relationship without looking like the wimp who constantly begs his girlfriend for sex and never actually gets what he wants.
Fractionation is one of the strongest seduction techniques out there specially designed for women domination
Seduction 2.0 – Why Women Want Hypnosis
The next logical step in seduction domination would be to use hypnosis to completely put a woman under your spell. Much buzz has generated around the “seduction questions” technique where a woman is made to fall in love simply by asking her a series of questions which “manipulates” a loophole in her mind.
There is some legitimacy surrounding these techniques, but it’s useful to consider theSOURCE of these techniques. These tactics are developed using fractionation which “taps” into a woman’s mind and creates little seeds of attraction which you then grow.
How fractionation works is out of the scope of this article, but there’s a full treatment of how the technique works here in this video. Go check it out.
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You fell in love with a person in your group. Gathering up your confidence, you confessed your feelings for this individual. However, she responded that there is no romantic spark and that the two of you are better off as friends. It implies that you have officially entered the friend zone. This scenario is the primary reason why many people ask how to avoid the friend zone.
Being a friend is the dreaded answer many individuals hear today. The following tips will help on how you can avoid the friend zone and hopefully start being more than a buddy to the person that you like.
Friend and Lover: Understand the Difference
This is the main problem people encounter. They wish to share a romantic life with another person, but they don’t know how to differentiate both roles. Some individuals would continue to act as friends instead of being someone who is involved in a romantic relationship. You must be able to show off an aura that you’re not only a friend material, but a person who can ignite romance. This is an essential step to avoid the friend zone.
Remember to understand the difference between being a friend and being a romantic partner material. From there, you can move forward in achieving your romance goals.
Know what Your Target Person Finds Attractive
Another important point in avoiding the friend zone is knowing the characteristics your friend finds attractive. As a friend, you already know what stirs this person’s interest. Do some gestures such as being extra sweet or being touchy. Keep in mind that avoiding the friend zone is becoming someone who is beyond being a buddy material.
One of the things that hold people in the friend zone is the lack of touch. If you want to know how to avoid the friend zone, you must start to be comfortable about being touchy to your friend. Bear in mind that you should not be disrespectful even if you plan to be touchy to your friend. Start by putting your arms on her shoulder and then see if she is becoming comfortable with it. From there, you can be more touchy and start the spark that you have been waiting for.
Let Your Friend Miss You
A strategic way in avoiding the friend zone is by letting the other person miss you. No matter how happy you are when the person you like asks you to go out; you should not immediately stop all your activities just to be with him or her. Say that you have other commitments and that you cannot make it now. Remember that being able to know how to avoid the friend zone is not only achieved by being always present to his or her life, but also by playing hard to get at times.
Avoiding the friend zone is a simple procedure if you know these tips. By following them, you are assured to get out of ‘always the friend’ curse and finally enjoy the romantic life that you want.
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“What should I do and shouldn’t do on a first date?”
It’s a question I often get from guys. So here are few tips to help you out when you go out on your first date with a girl.
Don’t Interview Her
The most common thing I see guys tend to do when they go out on a first date with a girl is to ask her a bunch of questions. The common questions are… Where are you from? What do you do? What do you like to do for fun? I know it’s hard to resist and that’s understandable, but always do your best to keep these kinds of questions to a bare minimum. The reason is because these are interview type questions. These are the most boring questions you can ask a girl. Boring does not create any attraction and when you bore a girl she is not going to go on a second date with you.
Instead of asking questions try to use statements. When you use statements you are not taking any value away from a girl. Asking too many questions actually takes value and makes the girl bored and not interested. So what kind of statements should you use? Try to use observational statements. You can say something like. You seem like a really cool girl. You have a really great vibe about you and a good sense of style. Statements like these do not take any value from her it gives her value.
Don’t Be Needy
Ok, this one is a killer. I know it may be really exciting to go out on a date and the date may turn out great, but at the end of the date don’t say, “So when do you want to meet again?” “Are you free tomorrow?” “What is your schedule like this week?” These kind of questions show neediness and neediness kills attraction big time! So be cool. Be a solid man and leave the needy little boy at home.
Often times when we meet someone new that we like we always do our best to put our best foot forward. However, even though you do your best to make a first impression you want to make sure that you are yourself. Don’t try to act cool or try to show off. It’s very important to be yourself and genuine. The reason is it’s easier to be yourself in the long run than it is to pretend to be someone you are not. If you pretend to be someone you are not and she falls in love with that person then it makes it so much harder for her to fall in love with the real you since you were pretending the whole time, so be yourself and be genuine.
Your smell is going to be very important when you go on a date. If you decide to wear cologne make sure you use it sparingly and not take a bath in it where the couple at the next table could smell you. Make sure that you wear deodorant, have fresh breath (take gum with you). If you use cologne or even a pheromone enhancing scent make sure that you put these on your pulse spots on your body to have the best effect.
If you had a really bad day and you are going on your first date make sure you do everything you can to get into a better mood. This means listening to your favorite music to get in a better mood or even meditating before seeing your date. Also, do not discuss with your date how bad a day you had. This will not only turn her off, it will guarantee to show you can’t handle your emotions very well. So don’t be a whiner on your date. Stay cool, calm and do everything you can to have an upbeat mood.
Women love to slowly uncover things about you. Try not to give too much away to her on your first date. You can give your date an idea about whom you are, but don’t go so much into details about yourself. Let her discover you for herself. For instance, say she told you that she really loves Maltese puppies and you happen to have one. Don’t say, “Oh, I have a Maltese puppy.” You can say, that’s cool you like puppies. I have a puppy and then pause… Often times, leaving certain details out will get her to question you more. You want to be a gift to her and let her unwrap you like you are her present.
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